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How did I find out (part 3/3) – Diagnosis

Finally, the big mystery is revealed—the diagnosis is in: vestibular schwannoma, also known as acoustic neuroma. A lovely, not-so-small tumor in my head. And that’s how I finally found out...

My appointment for the MRI was on December 23rd (2024). Because I chose the first available slot, I had to make a compromise—I had to drive an hour and a half to get there. Well, of course, my girlfriend didn’t allow me to drive because of my symptoms. So, all thanks to her, she drove us there. The MRI scan went really well. The personnel gave me headphones with calming music, I laid down on the MRI bed, and through the small mirror in the head frame, I could see a television playing relaxing videos of nature. That wasn’t my first encounter with an MRI procedure, so I knew what to expect. The MRI scan was done without contrast dye (as my doctor stated in his referral) and was completed in something like 15 to 20 minutes.

This MRI provider had a great system for delivering medical images. Not even half an hour had passed after the procedure when I got a text message with access codes to view my MRI scan images. My girlfriend and I weren’t even on our way back home yet. We were heading to the grocery store to grab some quick snacks before hitting the highway. I was very nervous. What would the MRI scans reveal? The uncertainty was killing me. Normally, the procedure is that the MRI is done by a general radiologist, and then, usually within a few days, a specialist radiologist writes an opinion—a report of their findings. So I knew that all I had now were images without any explanation. But I couldn’t wait. Not even until we got home. I had to take a look myself. So, I downloaded the images to my phone. Installed a mobile app for viewing them. I held my breath and started scrolling through those images showing slices of my head, from my neck to the top. I’m no medical expert, and the knowledge I had from high school biology was not fresh. I didn’t know what to look for, so my best strategy was to compare the left side of my head to the right side and vice versa. At first, everything seemed fine to me. I even said, “I think everything looks fine,” to my girlfriend. But then I did one more sweep through the sequence. And there it was! A gray circular area on the right side of my head that wasn’t on the left side. I looked at it, not knowing what it was, whether it belonged there, or whether it was serious. I just saw that the internals of the right side of my head were not the same as the left. When I looked closely and thought about it for a few seconds, I quickly connected the dots… “This shouldn’t be there.” It was a very scary moment. Questions kept popping into my head, but I didn’t have even the slightest clue what the answers could be. All I knew was that there was something in my head that didn’t belong there. Of course, you first think of the worst-case scenario, and you come to a dark conclusion—based on movies you’ve seen and stories you’ve heard—that your life could be over in months. It shook me. And I was probably pale as if I had seen a ghost.

This was the worst possible time to get such news—the holiday season. It was basically the last full week of the year, with only three working days. So probably every specialized radiologist in the country was taking their well-deserved time off, and there was no hope that written MRI reports would come in before January 3rd. That meant spending at least a week and a half on edge, not knowing what was happening to me or what I could even do if symptoms got worse. The symptoms were already very worrying to me, and from my perspective, they came out of nowhere and were ramping up fast. So, for me, complications over Christmas or New Year’s wouldn’t be ideal. And don’t even mention the anxiety of not knowing. So my partner and I decided that I would, very early the next day (the morning of December 24th), go unannounced to the clinic and ask if I could have five minutes with my doctor before his first appointment—just to determine how serious the situation was and whether there was a need to act immediately. The next day, I was in the waiting room before any other patient or medical staff had even arrived. After some nervous minutes, the nurses who check in patients for my doctor came in for their shift. Even though the rule was clear— “Only patients with appointments. No exceptions!”—I tried to explain my situation, my concerns, and my fears. But I failed. I tried, but it didn’t work. All I got was a suggestion to send a written message to my doctor through their medical portal, and maybe, if he had time, he would respond. Well, better than nothing. I went straight home, sat behind the computer, selected a few MRI images, marked the suspicious mass with measurements, and sent them to him, kindly asking if he could shed some light on it. A few hours later, I got a call. It was my doctor. He was very kind and explained that he decided to call me in person. He reassured me that although there was something that shouldn’t be there, there was no need to panic—it was very unlikely that it would cause serious complications in the next week or two. He said it could be something like a harmless cyst, calcification, or something similar—but we’d have to wait for the radiologist’s report to determine the next steps. For now, I should relax and wait through the holidays, because there was no real life-threatening danger. He didn’t mention that this could be a Schwannoma. But all that mattered was that he calmed me down, and the possibility of an immediate life-threatening situation was off the table.

This holiday season was very stressful for me. Of course, I didn’t just sit and wait. I desperately wanted to figure out what was in my head. All I had was the internet, and I was using it at 120% of my ability. Quite quickly, I stumbled on a condition called Acoustic Neuroma, also known as Vestibular Schwannoma, and my MRI images aligned with those on the internet quite well. There were other possibilities too—some sounded better, some much worse—but Vestibular Schwannoma was my best bet. And so, my holidays turned into a time of intensive research into plausible treatments for Vestibular Schwannoma, aka Acoustic Neuroma.

On January 2nd, at 22:20, I got a message saying that the MRI report was available on the MRI provider’s web portal. I didn’t open it right away and instead decided I would wait until morning. In the morning, my partner and I downloaded the report and read it. It stated: Vestibular Schwannoma, with meningioma as a plausible differential diagnosis, and a recommendation for another MRI with contrast dye—which was something I had already assumed and hoped for. It was a sort of relief for us. Now we at least had a confirmation of what it probably was. It wasn’t a solid confirmation yet, but it was enough. So, for me, the early morning of January 3rd, 2025, is the moment I found out that I have a tumor called Vestibular Schwannoma growing on the right side of my head. Fancy, right?

Next, I had to wait until January 6th for my doctor to come back to work. He wrote me a referral for an MRI with contrast dye, and the scan—done on January 17th—confirmed the initial diagnosis. Everything that followed… I’ll get into in future posts.

Huh. That three-parter turned out way longer than I planned. I have to admit—I lost myself a little bit while writing this. But in a good way. I really hope you found it interesting, and I’m looking forward to seeing you in the next blog post.


Links to part one and two of this story:
Part 1 - Early signs
Part 2 - The wake-up call

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